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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you not have a pediatrician? You say he's in preschool - are there not teachers there? Instead of asking strangers on the internet for advice on how to parent your child through what sounds like a difficult series of emotional patterns and behaviors, consult a professional who knows him personally. You can't outsource stuff like this and there is no one-size fits all approach. Any worthwhile pediatrician will work with you on behavioral issues - it is part of development and health - or refer you to someone, if necessary. Also words like "good" or "bad kid" are definitely not going to help anyone. [/quote]

Teacher here of 15 years- I am SO sick of parents asking for help how to raise children. What happens in your home is because of the environment you’ve created- it’s on you. I’m with your child 7 hours a day and have figured out how to take control of the situation and manage a room full of children in a warm/loving yet stern way. But if you can’t handle your own child, that’s on you so please stop encouraging the OP to put even more on teachers plates. Half the time, you waste our time and don’t implement what we suggest and the behaviors begin to manifest into the classroom and then your child ends up kicking me when I’m 35 weeks pregnant (yes this has happened). We are a child’s teacher, therapist, caretaker (yes I have given children snacks because parents don’t give them enough food) but I’m not also going to be their parents therapist for $60,000 a year.  Do your homework, read books and follow through and stop outsourcing help. Bringing a super nanny in isn’t going to change the relationship you’ve established with your child.

OP-all I have to say is remove all TV’s from your house and explain to the child why this is happening. Let your child go outdoors to play instead and spend quality time (off your phone) and play with him. If he kicks say that really hurt mom, we do not kick, playtime is over and take away something your child loves.  But basically you have to be present. Get off your phones, screens etc and get to know one another. That’s my advice- now it’s up to you to make it happen. [/quote]

Wowwwww sounds like someone needs a whaaambulance and a new job. [/quote]

Wow sounds like someone needs a good fk and  new hubby[/quote]

Yes, I agree the teacher who first posted could probably use some relaxation. As for me, I like my job just fine and I've never had to ask a low wage, low skill worker for advice on raising my child. [/quote]

You sound esquizofrenic. Are you one of those moms who will stay home 24/7 with their kids? Crazy. Stay home forever with your kid 24/7 and never let them go. You sound so non empathetic. Please don't have kids or having more.
You need to work better and respect the Early Educators. They have more experience.

I hope your kids don't get that insane non empathetic mentality of yours. Well, they do say some kids turn out the same aholes like their parents.

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