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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - they basically said we know you’re going to be in x state and so we’ve arranged to go on vaca from there after Xmas so we can come join you for Xmas and the day after. I feel like I’m gonna have to talk to my parents and say we just need to suck it up that they join. It feels too mean to say you can’t come. My feeling is they shouldn’t expect to come - but clearly they do so given that fact I think we prob just need to accept it [/quote] Okay, no. OP. It's against etiquette to invite people to a place that isn't yours! You don't get to put this burden on your parents. That's really rude OF YOU. This is what people like your ILs do-- they just crash through boundaries and ignore good manners that are there for a reason, and then other people feel obligated to accomodate them, and they win. Don't give in to it. Stand up for your parents and your family. You don't owe it to your ILs to put this burden on your parents.[/quote]
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