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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Marrying right after college is cool and smart. You should be in that mentality.

Sleeping around aka "dating" around is gross, unhealthy, and leads to mental despair.

Your laptop, PowerPoint, Excel, email job is not actually important.

Stop being an alcoholic.

Traveling is a time and money sink.[/quote]

Huh so I should have married my loser boyfriend instead of taking a Fulbright after college? Good to know![/quote]

Don’t date losers!! At any age!!![/quote]

Well I am being a little mean to call him a “loser.” True he had zero ambition and never got a professional job. But he was a nice guy, earned a living, devoted to his friends, fun. I just did not really see him in my life - we were too different in our goals. The real mistake I’d tell my 20-something self was that I wasn’t confident enough to just break up with him. I strung him along and ghosted for a while, which was really painful for him. Obviously, forcing myself to marry the wrong person and not taking life-changing travel/academic opportunities would have been absolutely stupid. But so would have been breaking up with him while we were still having a nice relationship. [/quote]

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