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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Something is wrong with OP and her husband if they have no friends after staying here for 15 years. [/quote]

I don’t think so. I grew up in Northern Virginia and my parents never had any friends, other than coworkers who lived far, far away and they never got together with outside work. They both grew up in tight knit communities where everyone knew everyone. They each had close friends in high school and college. But they lived in the DC area for almost 25 years and never really made friends there. They’re retired now, left the area and they have friends now in their 70s. There’s something about the DC rat race. [/quote]

Your parents sound very insular.  It does not matter that their coworkers lived far away, did they not have neighbors that they could be friends with?  Imagine being somewhere for 25 years and not making friends.  It is chilling to me.

I am a non-White, non-Christian immigrant who loves DMV. I have made friends  from all races.  My own parents were very social and I grew up learning  how to be a good host and good guest. They taught us how to make friends and nurture friendships.  I wanted to replicate that same environment of a bustling household for my kids.

Do you have friends or are you following in the footsteps of your parents too? [/quote]

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