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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yikes!I would leave if someone said I had to take my shoes off at a formal party. That is incredibly rude and presumptuous. Hard no for me. And I wouldn't want to be friends with anyone that controlling about their OCD. Several of you clearly have OCD issues.[/quote] Dont go to Japan i guess. [/quote] Or South Asia. [/quote] Into Eastern Europe, Russia, Sweden, parts of Africa, Central Asia, nor East Asia. [/quote] It’s about doing what is culturally polite in the country you are in. In the US it is rude to insist people remove their shoes at a holiday party. [/quote] Who says? [b]The US is a barely born country founded by immigrants less than 300 years ago. A quarter of the US is either first or second generation.[/b] “Don’t ask people to take off their shoes at holiday parties” is not a cultural norm. If it were, there wouldn’t be so much disagreement here.[/quote] So let me get this straight. Because this country is generous enough to offer citizenship and residency to a lot of immigrants, native-born Americans have no right to ask that their own cultural norms be respected too. Is that your true belief? If so, congrats, you may turn me into a xenophobe![/quote] Why are you assuming your background is the "cultural norm" for people native born in the US? I don't think it is. I was born here and we take off our shoes in the house. Have you seen what's on the sidewalks? Dirt, bugs, vermin, dog poop, bird poop, salt, lawn chemicals, etc.[/quote]
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