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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The camp knew from the beginning that my child was dealing with this on-going problem and was therefore in pull-ups. He had very few accidents the entire summer until he began this miralax routine and has had 2 incidents that I'm aware of (there could be a 3rd but I'm not sure about it). Children do not need to be potty trained at this camp and these are not high school students caring for kids. It's actually a very expensive camp but was the ONLY summer camps for children his age that was full-time. He's been dealing with this medical condition for 6+ months but typically, it doesn't have significant impact on his ability to engage with his peers and participate in activities. He loves being with friends, is social, and I'm not going to deprive him of positive social experiences with peers in the summer because of this problem that's only been a "major" issue twice this summer....so what 20-25 minutes of time the entire summer?? He's on a regular dose of miralax now that he takes daily. The actual cleanse, he stayed home. I don't know about you all but I only get 11 days of sick time a year. My husband gets much less. When school starts and sicknesses start circulating...kids are often required to be out for 2 full school days. This adds up real quick. We have to work, we cannot live on one income so to just think it's no big deal to just keep him home because of the possibility of having an episode of diarrhea....I cannot. I simply do not have that kind of time. I will lose my job. He needs to go to the childcare that I have prepared and I go to work. Before someone suggest, "just get a nanny"....I am not wealthy. I simply cannot afford a nanny. I'm not entitled but I do want my child to have access to the same experiences as his peers and to be able to enjoy his summer with his little buddies. [/quote] It is a standard policy that diarrhea gets a kid sent home. The end. No one is picking on you and your child. My youngest was in a cycle with some kind of chronic stomach issue where I was getting called to pick her up on and off for weeks and then she couldn't return for 24 hours. I feel your pain. It is what it is. You or your spouse need a more flexible job is what it sounds like. Also, acting like your kid having diarrhea in a pull up is no big deal for the staff is not great. It is a big deal.[/quote] There are exceptions for chronic medical issues with a doctor‘s note. So not the end. Op make sure you provide enough medical documentation next time. And be sure to get an IEP for school that covers these issues. [/quote] This is camp and you are in the infant, toddlers, and preschoolers forum. IEPs are a legal obligation and process at public schools. As some other poster noted MAYBE ADA applies, but that is a whole process and not some blanket guarantee of anything at all. [/quote] Summer camps are required to comply with ADA. https://www.justice.gov/file/campadaflyerpdf/download Chronic bowel conditions are covered by the ADA. Op says she discussed his medical condition with the camp and they initially were willing to accommodate. I am curious though Why camp and not daycare for such a young child. My daycare operates all year round. [/quote] Yes, we all know that, Jan. Thank you, Captain Obvious. Once again, you are (willfully) missing the point. OP, this "camp" will not take your son (and your expectations) next summer. Plan ahead, take some of the money from you and your spouse's Big Important Jobs and hire a summer sitter.[/quote]
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