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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'll echo others that need needs to grow the eff up. And no, just because you settled on two doesn't mean all the work is on you. He wasn't tricked. Loser.[/quote]
+1 it's not like she tied him down and raped him to get pregnant, or tricked him by saying she was on the pill.

He knew what he was doing. Grow the F* up and take responsibility for your kids even if you don't like the kid stage.[/quote]

This is how my mom tries to explain my father’s behavior away to me and it makes me ragey. “Not liking the kid stage” isn’t an excuse for being absent, neglectful, withholding, rude, mean, etc. to your innocent children.

One time when I was around 10-11, he held his hand out for me to hold it as we were crossing a street. We never held hands so I thought it was weird but I was like ok so I take his hand. He then drops mine and says “I was just kidding, you’re too old to hold hands.”

This sounds petty right but coming from a man who never hugged or cuddled me, told me he loved me at an age where I could remember it, spent time with me without my mother around, paid me attention, who was constantly shushing me, telling me not to ask for things or take second helpings etc., it was crushing. It stayed with me.[/quote]

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