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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I'm not sure how or why I should just grit my teeth and do MORE for us, while he does more for HIM. Just silently handle all the school forms, supply lists, uniform orders, next diaper sizes shoe orders etc. I'm sure I could go along and do anything for a week or a month. But isn't that just living in denial or with wool over my eyes? Leading to an eventual and predictable explosion.[/quote]

Aren't you already doing everything for the kids? How will your life change if you get divorced?

You can certainly be sure you'll be doing [i]everything [/i]for the kids if you get divorced. All the school stuff, all the appointments, all the birthday party arrangements, all the clothing shopping, all the personal care of the kids (nail clipping etc.), all the help with homework - everything will occur on YOUR time. When they're with him, they'll watch TV and play on electronics.

That's how my life is now. I do everything and pay for everything. My ex does nothing, pays for nothing. The only consolation is that my ex isn't right there in the house being useless and doing nothing right in front of me as a constant irritant.[/quote]

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