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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This might be an unpopular opinion, but I think concerns about something bad happening if the betrayed spouse ratted out the OW to her own spouse are overblown. I know it happens, but I think for most people its highly unlikely Most people who have affairs are just regular people who made bad decisions, not sociopaths.

So that (coupled with my belief that people have a right to know who they are sleeping with) is why if I found out my husband was sleeping with a married woman, [b]I'd tell her husband[/b]. [/quote]
It is just abominably selfish and psychotic to do this. Can you imagine breaking up another family and destroying children's lives because of some misplaced moralism? Half of people cheat. We need to do better at understanding our own relationships, problems, failings, and societal constructs before we go nuclear.

I personally would not want to know if DH cheated because I would never get over it. If it's over and done with, and we can find a way to move on, I would rather fly blind. It doesn't mean my life is a lie. I have a rich inner life and outer life without DH and I don't need to share everything with him. Sure, sleeping around is a betrayal, but disclosing only leads to pain and destruction. Think before you act.[/quote]

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