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Reply to "spouse eats lunch out every day; I get leftovers"
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[quote=Anonymous]^^Also, be honest with yourself. Often people with this pattern get this way because it serves them on some level. They like being the one who doesn’t make the decisions. They like avoiding conflict, which they lack the tools to move through. They like being the helper and being needed by others. The position of victim allows them to be passive and point fingers at someone else when things go wrong, instead of taking responsibility for setting up a better situation. If he’s really blocked when it comes to acknowledging your needs you still have choices. Divorce is one of them. Letting him know you are serious to the point of contemplating that could change what he sees as his options.[/quote]
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