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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not at all a Notebook situation. You have an ex with a messy past with you and a single dad you are not so in love with. And your situation does not sound like it is class based family opposition like in the Notebook. Don’t romanticize your situation.  [/quote]

Totally agree. How old are you OP? You sound desperate to get married.[/quote]

I’m not desperate to get married. I pointed out that they both want to marry me, so these two men aren’t just people that I’m dating but consider serious relationships. I know I don’t have to marry anyone. [/quote]

And not to burst your bubble but saying you want to get married and the steps to get married are far different. I’m pretty sure every guy I have ever dated and was a boyfriend has told me he wanted to marry me at some point. When I was engaged to Dh, my ex also told me he wanted to marry me. He told me he wanted to marry me when we were dating too. My high school boyfriend said the same thing and we would daydream about it. We talked about how cute our kids would be.[/quote]

It’s not bursting my bubble. I know this already.[/quote]

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