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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because it’s 2022 and we’re done blaming women for the transgressions of men. What an affair partner does is not good, but they’re not the one breaking their vows, taking away their spouses informed consent, and harming their children. [/quote]

Agree.  The person married is 100% at fault.  It isn’t up to some random stranger you meet to make sure you don’t stray from your marriage vows.  Maybe the woman doesn’t even know you are married.  Either way- if she isn’t, your marriage isn’t hers or her problem.  The person cheating is the problem- in its entirety.  Done blaming women.  Men that aren’t loyal to their spouse are the problem.  They will always find “someone” whether it is a woman they lie to, a prostitute, a man in rest stop, an unsuspecting intern, a woman that just wants no strings attached too.  The “other” person isn’t the problem.  It is the married person that is the problem [/quote]

Many married men who go on the apps and stuff flat out lie about their marriage, saying they have an open marriage or DADT. Unless you are really careful to verify you just don’t know if they are lying to get what they want.

I’ve always thought the real issue underlying infidelity is the dishonesty. Not only to others but also to yourself. It is a path taken by people who do not have the capacity to deal with their own emotions or the emotions of others. The lying allows them to cover up that incapacity with nice stories.[/quote]

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