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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OP, as the mom of a child with SN-I probably would not go.

The sister knows her niece has sn and can't be left alone. She has no right to be angry at OP for not wanting to leave behind her dd, sister's niece. I bet the parents feel the same way and that is why they may not come.[/quote]

OP here. Thank you for saying this.[/quote]

But this is not fair; your daughter doesn’t need both parents. I’m SURE your husband has been with her on his own for a couple of hours. I think you need to take ownership of your decision- if you aren’t willing to go to your own sister’s reception it’s NOT because your daughter needs you. It’s because you aren’t willing to be a little uncomfortable going with out your husband, either because you are very anxious or your mad at your sister for how this was handled. I’m a PP who also has a child with some special needs and I very very rarely leave my child with a babysitter so I totally understand that part of the decision making. But you can still go, and pretending you can’t isn’t helpful. I think that’s what most of us are reacting very strongly to.[/quote]

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