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[quote=Anonymous]You are making this all about you and what you want, when it’s obvious your wife is overwhelmed and possibly depressed. I’m guessing you are like that in all aspects of your relationship and she just doesn’t have the bandwidth to cater to you anymore. Ask your wife what *she needs* to recharge and refuel. Hint: it’s NOT dates. She probably needs you to step it up at home, to pursue her own interests, to have alone time, a social life, etc. Once she feels like a whole person again and not just mom/wife/maid/worker, she’ll have the energy to do more for your relationship. But it’ll never work if you approach it with the attitude of doing it for you. You need to care about your wife as a human being with her own needs, not as a object made to serve your needs. [/quote]
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