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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wanted to chime in and say I don't find the dollar dance thing offensive-especially given it's a tradition and we're talking about a dollar. The cash tree I think it put out hoping you can rake in big bucks and I have yet to find any evidence it is some tradition going back many years in a culture. Cash gifts are totally fine as long as they are not expected. We have heard from on these posts about the Korean and Jewish tradition and that did not offend me in the least becomes nobody is told to give money, it's just a tradition among those close to the family.[/quote] I attended a wedding where the bride had some kind of lace apron and danced around in a circle for guests to toss in money and, believe me, bulging envelopes and $100 bills were what was being "tossed" into her lace apron. Frankly, I would have been humiliated to have done this but it as an [b]ethnic[/b] wedding. Only men were allowed to contribute as the bride gave each of them a kiss. It was obvious that a goodly sum was expected--nothing less than $100.00. [/quote] [b]I love how everyone agreed with this poster about how terrible this tradition was and no one took offense to her referring to the wedding as "ethnic". [b]White people are so ridiculous[/b]. [/b][/quote] I'll bite. It's as stupid for someone to call out an group by race... for not calling out that somebody else calling somebody "ethnic". Fine, Sally Sensitive: "but it was a wedding from a different culture". Satisfied?[/quote] No, you are ridiculous and way too sensitive. Get over yourself, please. [/quote]
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