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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What happened with the birth control? Did she forget to take it and decide to have unprotected sex anyway? Did she want to get pregnant and then change her mind? She should get an IUD. [/quote]

Her birth control method is her decision.  If she wants an IUD in the future we’d make that happen.  I am not sure what happened.  She thinks she forgot a pill.[/quote]

I was on BC when I got pregnant.  Magically 4 other moms of kids  in my DSs kindergarten class who had birthdays within 8 weeks of DS we’re on the same BC I was.[/quote]

OP I thought I admired how you’re handling this at the beginning of the thread, but now I’m starting to think you’re a damn fool. Your daughter is a 17 year old minor. You’re treating her like she’s one of your adult friends [/quote]

I think it's great that OP's daughter can talk to her and knows that there's no judgment about sex and its potential consequences. An open, supportive family is wonderful. But this seems to have veered too far into "it's all good, man" territory. A teenager getting pregnant isn't nothing. It's not shameful, but it's still kind of a big deal. Therapy, no therapy...that's not the issue. It's wild to me that the priority isn't sitting her down and having some serious talks about this relationship and sex. I can see why the boyfriend's parents are uncomfortable. Their teenaged son knocked someone up! It's important. [/quote]

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