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[quote=Anonymous]I read this whole post, which I rarely do on DCUM.
I'm a mom of 3, with a 10-week old baby. She and the older two are all "successful" BFers. 
I am glad to see OP move away from the BF/formula discussion as if they are rival camps, to reiterate that this is about support from her husband, and her own mental/emotional health.

I have, in many ways, a wonderful husband. But my DH responds in a similar way about certain things, and it comes across as really unempathetic. This is what I got from OP. She wants husband to empathize, to show he cares.
So many PPs basically said to stop talking about BF with husband. Find support groups. But to me it sounds like their relationship is actually quite healthy, and what would make a difference here is a way to communicate to husband that he could just respond with support and comfort whenever OP is struggling. I for example have explained to my husband that sometimes, all I need is an, "It's going to be OK," and a hug. I'm not looking for you to fix anything. I'm not complaining. I just want to express my feelings and know you're there for me.

OP, you sound very level headed, and you have handled the problematic PPs like a pro!

I believe you are doing everything right for your child, your plans and goals sound realistic and attainable to me, and I hope you find more support soon, whether it be from your husband or a support group.[/quote]

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