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[quote=Anonymous]I love my DIL and SIL. I adore my MIL. I don’t blame them for anything and we have good relationships. Then again, none of them have done anything bad to me, and none cross normal boundaries. I would probably have major issues with them if they did cross decent boundaries. However, I know what you mean. So many friends have acrimonious relations with in laws. Jokes about in laws are epic. In many non Western cultures, junior female in laws are treated as chattel, forced to do slave like labor, blamed for any problems that pop up as they are from different (usually patrilineal) ancestral systems, and often forced to marry old men while they themselves are children. I am very grateful for such good relations with all my in laws but am sympathetic to many women who are treated very unfairly by in laws. Already praying for my daughter to have wonderful in laws eventually. It helps make life, that is challenging enough, so much smoother. [/quote]
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