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[quote=Anonymous]My spouse does most of the shopping. Also has significant and unmedicated adhd. He goes to the store probably daily fir things he's forgotten. I don't criticize about this forgetting, he doesn't complain about going all the time (he prefers it to cleaning, cooking and bills which I do) . Anyway I learned long ago that criticism is useless, just makes him feel angry abd defensive. We try to play to our strengths and look at big picture. But I certainly do felt like op early on, when we had in kids and sh$t hit the fan and I expected bhim to be like me. [/quote]
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