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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your update shows you doing the thinking for your sister.  Not your place.  Also, of your youngest and her oldest are only a few weeks/months apart like you said, why wouldn’t her oldest be ready for tge same freedoms as your kid? Yiu said yours was old enough to independently ski but her oldest two aren’t.  Sounds like her oldest is.[/quote]

They are just different personalities, but also my youngest is a good enough skier to keep up with his brother and older cousins.  I wouldn’t send him by myself but I am happy to send him with the big kids.  Her oldest isn’t.  I am also much more comfortable with asking my older kid to make judgements about what his own brother can do, than I am asking him to take on that responsibility for another kid.  Plus then that still leaves out one kid.

I feel like if they come of course her older kids will want to ski with the older kids.  So instead of my sister getting hurt we’ll have either her kids getting hurt or mine.  And they won’t understand.  So having them there just means that instead of my sister getting hurt some of the kids do, or I or my youngest sister ends up babysitting to avoid that.  
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