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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ good cheaters will even leave their phone unattended or let u know their password..gives you even more of the illusion that they are decent.  This allows them to not get caught for a very long time since suspicion is absent.[/quote]

Lol what a loser way to live.  Burner phone; burner email; room by the hour at the no-tell motel (or the back of the Esplanade as one PP indicated).  I know married life can get a little boring.  But boring means no drama, aka - your life is working!  Why people feel compelled to risk throwing away stability in exchange for a burner-phone-and-car-sex double life is beyond my comprehension.  Serious issues that the non-cheating spouse isn’t equipped and shouldn’t be expected to fix.

No wonder OP wants clarity on what he’s dealing with. I would want answers and would want out too if there were indicators my spouse was behaving like this.

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Not a cheater but not all marriages = stability. I wish people would stop that assumption that all marriages are “good” or provide “stability”; some people are just trying to survive with that choice. It is not always what people assume. There can also be “drama” in marriage (family issues, fighting, lack of sex, emotional abuse, etc.)

OP needs to decide if he wants to be married. That is it. [/quote]

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