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Reply to "suspect DW is cheating - any value in getting PI to get proof?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP is clearly the problem. Just read his posts, they are legit controlling. I'm guessing she didn't cheat, but she did try to breathe because he is so controlling.[/quote] I disagree. OP had suspicion of cheating. It is perfectly reasonable to check out suspicions. It is also perfectly reasonable not to want to pay alimony to a spouse who violated vows/monogamy. It is not controlling to contract for monogamy and then want to leave the marriage if that is not the case. Even if a spouse was controlling, that is no excuse for cheating. One spouse doesn’t cause the other to cheat - that is literally abusive thinking. Abusers can’t take responsibility for their own behavior and consequences thereof. A cheater is like the man who hits his wife because “she made me angry”. A cheater says “you made me cheat by not giving me X”. [/quote]
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