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[quote=Anonymous]OP, let him be an asshole all by himself. Dont engage. Save your strength. use your anger productively to figure out the next steps, get through this, protect your kids. Either he will get his head out of his a$$ or he wont, but if you dont give him more fuel, then he has to look to himself and stop blaming you. Its a lot easier for him to blame you for being a bitch than it is for him to take responsibility (and honeslty vice versa) but if you dont engage, he's left with his own bs. Get some individual counseling, you need a separate place to blow off steam and decide what you want. Remember let him be an a$$ by himself is not the same as 'giving in.' You can't fight if one person doesn't engage. He's going to try to push your buttons, the most powerful thing you can do is simply let it slide. [/quote]
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