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[quote=Anonymous]When my two kids were very young my husband made very negative comments about my appearance. I really didn't have the time or energy to work out or take care of myself. I had gained some weight, I was very slightly overweight. When they were a little older and my lifestyle better supported it, I lost the weight and got in better shape. It would be better for our marriage if he'd kept it to himself and instead offered to help me make time to work out. (Not by suggesting I wake up earlier!) Or just said nothing and respected that being maximally attractive to him could not be my top priority at the moment. How you handle this type of thing is something she's going to remember far after the short term stresses of having very young kids are over. [/quote]
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