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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, I had the same experience, and it was probably more like 80% of the men cheated. It was also quite out in the open on business travel. My theory is that all men want to cheat and if the shame of it is taken away and the opportunity is there, they will.

When I got divorced, so many married male friends came on to me, and yes, including the types that I wouldn't have thought. No idea what % of my social circle is cheating but the correct answer is "most" men if they could.[/quote]

Agree: most married men would cheat if they "could" and the difference comes down to [b]opportunity[/b]. Men who are super attractive, tall, wealthy, high status have opportunities without effort. That is a pretty elite group.

But the other 95% of married men have to really WORK for it. And let's be honest: most married men are just not that sexy where any sane woman wants to smash that (wedding ring and all). Most men have to [u]actively pursue[/u] a long line of uninterested women (looking at you PP), fight through this wall of rejection, finally to create a single "cheating opportunity".

Men who are sexually satisfied at home rarely would even consider doing all this extra work! It's hard enough to pursue the wife, forget about pursuing even more lady drama! Men who are NOT sexually satisfied at home it's a no brainer, these men will even go to pathetically desperate measures to meet their sexual needs (like coming on to recently divorced PP).[/quote]

not true about your last statement.  Many men will cheat even if they're sexually satisfied at home.  Many want something new.

Also many men won't give in to opportunity because of who they are (value family etc.).  [/quote]

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