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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't get over how unappreciative some of you are! Everything doesn't have to be practical, planned, and requested by you. I love receiving special, surprise gifts that my husband has picked out. We both do that.[/quote]

So what? You like it, OP specifically said please don't get me this. And he did it anyway. Do you understand how that feels?

For example
Me to husband: Please don't buy me those socks, I really don't like wool socks. They make my ankles itch.
Husband thinks: I'll just get her these wool socks. They don't feel itchy to me.

It IS the thought that counts, right? And her husband completly and blatenly disregarded her stated preferences. He thought HIS ideas were more important and fitting for her. So disrespectful. So, this goes down as an F- in my book.

My husband has done this to me (not with $5000 earrings). And it makes me angry that when I say "please don't buy this" he thinks it is funny to then buy that for me. Not funny. Not respectful. Not thoughtful. He is clearly of the mind that his joy in giving it to me is more important than my joy in receiving it.

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