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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, two baby mamas make you not so attractive, so you'd better have a big bank account to up your value.

Next, no, you're not looking for a unicorn.  There are many women who will have no interest in your kids.  The problem is, she'll want you to also have no interest in your kids.

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Wait! OP has 2 i=different women as mothers to his children and is 45 and doesn't want to date anyone over 30?   This is a mess.

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No, I do not. Someone made that up. I have one ex, who is the mother of both my kids. I also never said I didn't want to date anyone over 30. I even said I was not trying to find a 25 year old. The people who are making stuff up are the mess.[/quote]

You said the idea of dating women your own age was hard to swallow. A woman in her thirties does not want to date a man who has kids in elementary school but doesn’t want any more kids. You need to target women around your age. There are plenty of them.[/quote]

Again, no, I didn't say that. I said that limiting myself to 45+ was hard to swallow because of how narrow the pool of potential matches becomes, which is definitely not the same as dating my own age is hard to swallow. I don't have a fixed age range in mind. Maybe 35-50? Someone who's fit at whatever age (as am I). She doesn't have to be rich, but I'm also not interested in being a sugar daddy.

Anyway, there have been a lot of helpful posts. Thanks for those.[/quote]

The problem with 35-40 is you’re still solidly in the childbearing range. It’s going to be easier to screen for your preference 40+. [/quote]

Nope. Childfree by choice women do not want kids regardless of stage of life. Try again.[/quote]
DP.  Realistically, child-free by choice isn’t a promising demographic for OP at any age.  OP needs to be looking for women who would have wanted children, but have accepted it’s too late in life to start that process from scratch and will instead embrace being a stepmom to OP’s kids.  You need to start around mid-40s to find that.[/quote]

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