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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] No. Worst case is the spouse finds out and they divorce. If not for his AP again his only option is divorce. In no scenario does he regret sex with AP.

I agree with this.[/quote]

You live in a fairtytale.  When a cheater’s spouse finds out, it unleashed trauma on the betrayed spouse.  Even the most selfish cheater would have to be stone cold to not regret inflicting that on someone they had built a life with.  And them when affairs blow up it’s not nearly as neat and tidy as getting a simple divorce. Kids usually find out about the affair and resent the cheating parent and end up with a skewed view of relationships.  This does not all happen in a vacuum.[/quote]

No kidding, lol. They must be young or immature. It's a big hit all the way around. I'm still married, but most of the people we knew got divorced. Even without cheating some won't be able to retire anytime soon. The ones that cheated had long divorces, and court hearings down the road to fight about child support and custody issues. Two couples we know fought for 10 years.

Cheaters try very hard to cover their tracks because they don't want to get caught. Yes 9 out of 10 they regret losing everything over trash, but sadly they didn't think they'd get caught. That's the reality for cheaters, much like criminals. [/quote]

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