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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] No. Worst case is the spouse finds out and they divorce. If not for his AP again his only option is divorce. In no scenario does he regret sex with AP.

I agree with this.[/quote]

You live in a fairtytale.  When a cheater’s spouse finds out, it unleashed trauma on the betrayed spouse.  Even the most selfish cheater would have to be stone cold to not regret inflicting that on someone they had built a life with.  And them when affairs blow up it’s not nearly as neat and tidy as getting a simple divorce. Kids usually find out about the affair and resent the cheating parent and end up with a skewed view of relationships.  This does not all happen in a vacuum.[/quote]

You say "trauma unleashed on the betrayed spouse" and I say "hypocritical sexless platonic room mate spouse discovers that their celibacy is incompatible with a monogamous relationship to a normal person"

Again, the PP you are responding to is in a [u]sexless marriage[/u]. His affair is NOT what blew up that marriage. That marriage blew up when his asexual wife decided to be a platonic room mate. Stop blame shifting.[/quote]

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