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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Okay. Tell me what I’m doing wrong and how to fix it to attract a woman with these qualities

Age: 30-35. A little younger is fine but I do not want a woman younger than 28. I need to have things in common and need a mature woman who has a good amount of life experience. I want a woman who knows what she wants.

Career: A woman who wants to be a lifelong SAHM or out her career on hold at least PT to be home with the kids when they need FT care.

Wife: I want a true partner. An actual marriage with respect and love. I do not want a mail order bride.

[b]A woman ideally willing to sign a prenup relinquishing any rights to my businesses. It’s not unreasonable for me to protect my assets. [/b]

I will be involved as I can. I plan to be an involved parent and spouse.

Most of the women I attract now either do not want to a SAHM or are gold diggers and get upset when I bring up a prenup. [/quote]

This is going to be the sticking point.  Flip this around and say a woman was looking for a SAHD because she works 70-80 a week and wanted you in your early 30’s (say you didn’t have the businesses and millions in assets) to give up working the raise kids for the next 20 years and sign a prenup.   Assuming you are financially savvy that would need to be one heck of a prenup to make it with giving up 20 years of prime earning, not saving for retirement, giving up any investments you could have made with your own income, not purchasing your own real estate/home, and the hit your career would take if you tried to re-enter the workforce after being out of it for how ever long if the marriage didn’t work out.

What about someone that already has money and their own investments and would be looking for you to sign a prenup?  Or someone that has a career that it easy to jump back into after years  like teaching or maybe nursing who also wants to be a SAHM while kids are young.  Or maybe a divorced mom that has been on the other side of working full time while being the default parent and would jump at the chance to be a SAHM with lots of help.[/quote]

OP here. She will never have to worry about money. Anything we earn while married is hers. She can keep the house and will be set for life.

I’m fine with a woman who has a career. I just want a woman who wants to be a SAHM when the kids are young. [/quote]

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