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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Before we married DH told me that if I ever had an affair he did not want me to tell him. He said it was selfish to hurt the other person with that information.[/quote] I understand the sentiment but it’s a slippery slope. My wife (and I) are ‘party people’ and I can envision a situation where things got out of hand: drinking on a work trip, girls weekend, etc. and she has a ONS. I certainly don't like the idea and hope it never happens but I’m pretty sure I wouldn't want to know. Hopefully, she would suffer the guilt, learn from it and not let it happen again and we move on. Now if this became her modus operandi in these situations or she had an ongoing AP, then there’s a problem in our relationship and I’d want out. [/quote]
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