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[quote=Anonymous]OP here, I have learned so much. What happens in childhood makes all the difference if traumatic and not dealt with before it blows up the marriage/ relationship. I knew this on some level but not the way I know now. It does not make it any less PTSD painful but it explains vulnerabilities, brokenness, cheating fathers, neglect, attachment problems, lack of honesty, searching for external validation, etc. It is more like substance abuse than not and has nothing to do with love. What we are doing now working so hard to survive together is where the love comes in but just knowing that the healing is possible, maybe, with intensive therapy and complete openness is all I need to hold right now.[/quote]
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