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[quote=Anonymous]Please listen to all the good advice you're getting, OP.

When life isn't going the way you envisioned or expected, it's easy to lose yourself to a fantasy in your head.  I suspect you never stopped loving that old boyfriend, and maybe what you really want is a chance to see him/connect with him.  You also seem to have guilt about the abortion.  You have this perfect storm going on in your head right now.  But please understand it's all in your head.  Your old boyfriend is not going to think well of you if you show up talking about an old abortion and a relationship that was never more than a passing fancy to him anyway.

Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you back is hard.  It could also be something called, "limerance" - there's been several threads about it here on DCUM, so look them up.  For all you know, this old boyfriend today is fat, bald, smelly, has developed gross habits like chewing his food with his mouth open.  You knew him when he was a 20-something hot guy.  That was a looong time ago.[/quote]

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