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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Such a coward reply. Again, it's making the decision for her that's the problem. You'll divorce her anyway when it's convenient for you so why not at least be a man and give her the option now. All you've said above are you rationalization of the situation because you're not doing the right thing by your wife because you want to have your cake and eat it too. She's kept in dark about this because it's convenient for you to do so now. You have rationalization above and it's focused on your narcissistic self.

See other post about how women are blinded by their husband's cheating. Do the right thing for her and for yourself. Go find someone else you'll be happy with at this point and give your wife a chance to find someone else when she's still relatively young. You're just a selfish a-hole.

And stop saying that women who disagree with you are harpies who aren't intimate with their husbands. Stop it. It's not true. We disagree because you're in the wrong. Along with your rationalization of a wrong act, this is just another trope that you use to attack people when they disagree with you.

Do the right thing. Tell your wife.[/quote]

+1.  I also called this narcissistic jerk out on his self-serving rationalizations.  He's too selfish and self-absorbed to get it - he needs therapy, but won't get that, either. Claiming his wife wants the marriage right now, too, is just wrong because his wife is being lied to and does not have all the information to make an informed decision.

And to the narcissistic jerk, your narrative is wrong.  I have been married 25 years and my DH and still have sex regularly  - but he's not a selfish guy with entitlement issues, like you are.[/quote]

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