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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did any of you ever have contact with the person they were cheating with?[/quote]

I’m the pregnant lady.

The 1st one no.

The 2nd was a coworker and I saw her at work events, I never actually suspected her specifically she literally looks like a man... like Pat from Saturday night live. My son actually caught them and he was like is dad gay. I was like no that’s a woman. That took a bit of counseling for him.[/quote]

Oh no! Your poor son.

That is pretty fun about SNL Pat though- thanks for the laugh. I could use one now.[/quote]
That is funny! Goes to show that people "affair down" in terms of looks. [/quote]

If that was true people's 2nd and 3rd spouses would be uglier and older than the first. In most cases that is not what happens...at all.  :roll: [/quote]

Not really.

People that date and marry are very different than people that have affairs with married people.

Good looking,  intelligent and self confident people don’t settle for crumbs.[/quote]

That's funny.  You think intelligent, attractive and confident people don't have affairs with married people or when they're married?  Whatever makes you feel better, I guess...[/quote]

So I'm not the pp.  I don't know what the spouse after the affair divorce looks like but wouldn't the dating partner ask about previous reason for divorce?  I would think that many people wouldn't accept a person who cheated on previous spouse and so this might limit the potential pool of candidates for the person who cheated and also limit overall whom they can attract (looks, financial ability, parenting skills, social skills, etc.).  I don't have any data to back it up but just the rationale.[/quote]

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