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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the woman that found out Friday... read this https://beingabeautifulmess.wordpress.com/the-180/ [/quote] NP. 33 lengthy rules/homework/changes to make because someone else cheated? No thanks. This is part of the problem- the cheater's life goes on, the person cheated on has a totally changed life and is now supposed to also follow these rules, not show emotion, etc? Not cool.[/quote] You are completely missing the point. There's really one rule around the 180 concept - the cheater is the one that has to do the legwork. He/She has to want back in, win you back and do everything they can to right the marriage. To me, that's one "rule" that the cheater needs to follow for the 180. And IMO, listing out the 33 steps on that site is kind of dumb.[/quote]
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