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[quote=Anonymous]You have every right to tell your story to your friends. Let them know you are struggling and why. This sounds a bit overly dramatic, like yes what happened sucks and is complicated but you are making it worse for yourself by being a martyr. At this point he is not your best friend. He manipulated your trust and decided to do something very hurtful, physically and emotionally, for his own gain. You need to allow yourself to feel angry and get support. This whole I wish I was a widow thing is a fantasy based on you not wanting to be angry at him, because if he died it wouldn’t be his fault and you could move on without anger. Get angry and get over it.

As for his family, that is trickier because he should be the one to deal with them. But if you really were so close to them that they were your family you should consider letting one person know. This whole thing really isn’t fair to you. It’s one thing for him to cheat on you with guys and give you an STD, another for him to expect you to keep his secret and isolate yourself.[/quote]

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