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[quote=Anonymous]Ohhh OP. I am so sad for you. This is painful to read.

This guy doesn’t know how to break it off.  You settle for whatever pieces he gives you. He needs to do nothing to keep you around. You do all the work. It’s perfect for him. It’s awful for you.

I watched my sister in law waste 6 years of her life, from 28-34, with a man she loved with all her heart, from dead end job to dead end job, to borrowing money for a class he never took or paid back, to the start up money for his own business, to their dream trip around the world, she defended him, loved him, made excuses for him ( he was depressed, he had anxiety, his parents ruined him, he was loner, misunderstood, a muse, a genius) and loved him more,  to the point that when he was unemployed for a year, and then 2, she bought a house for them to live in, then a car for him to go on job interviews, then an emotional support dog. She bought herself a very nice diamond ring and he proposed to her. He got a job and she planned a wedding. 
The wedding got pushed back. And pushed back. In his final act of complete disrespect, disregard, making excuses and forcing her hand, he cheated on her with prostitutes, that she paid for, and left the evidence right in front of her to find.
Because he didn’t have any reason to break up with her, she set up a life for him time and time again, fixed his mistakes, defended his honor, and loved him fiercely.
OP, don’t be another woman begging for a life.
I wish I knew you and I could sit you down.
You’ve gotten amazing advice on here, especially the poster who laid out what your future will look like dragging him to buy a house, have kids, pick them up, etc.
Give him a week to make a move. As in, you move in there in a week or you are gone. 
It’s enough. 
And then cry your heart out, like we all have at one time or another, endure that excruciating pain of breaking up with someone you love, you can do it, and move on. [/quote]

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