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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son and his wife are hosting my husband and I for Christmas, as well as my sister and her husband. My nephew will also attend the holiday dinner, but not as an overnight guest.

So far, it seems I've been relegated to "bring muffins and some wine" duty, which is fine. I want to be helpful, but I know they're excited to try their hand at hosting a holiday for the first time. Besides helping to watch the kids, and offering to help with the meals and household chores, what can I do? Any advice from those of you who have either hosted your ILs, or been guests of your DILs?[/quote]

Assuming you have a good preexisting relationship with your DIL, this should not be difficult.  Be a nice pleasant guest, say complimentary things about the house, their appearance, their kids and the food.  Do not criticize the food even if you don't like it.   Don't get into arguments even if you feel strongly about something.  Always support your DIL even in funny, well intentioned arguments between your son and his wife.  She will remember it and appreciate it.  Help if you like, relax if you like.  One thing that always pleases mothers is well-intentioned focus on their kids.  Whatever I think of DH's relatives, it always warms my heart to see them playing with the kids and actually doing it, not just saying it. [/quote]

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