Reply to How can you cheat and not think about how it will affect your kids?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "How can you cheat and not think about how it will affect your kids?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dude. If your wife isnt sleeping with you, there is a reason. Maybe ask her why.  If the answer isnt satisfactory or actionable, then you tell her if you can live with it or not.

Btw, sex isnt a need. Go to any high school or college and you'll find literally thousands of involuntarily celibate men. They dont commit crimes, rove around raping women, or generally blame women for their lot in life. The ones that do (like you) have bigger issues in play. [/quote]

Girl. If you aren't sleeping with your husband, there is a reason. Maybe tell him why. If sex is not important enough for you to clearly (in plain english) tell him your (actionable!) reason, then he is free to go elsewhere... because - by your own choice - sex isn't important, so it is no big deal when he does that unimportant thing elsewhere.

Btw, fidelity isn't a need. Go to any neighborhood block party and you will find thousands of sexless wives whose husbands have saved the marriage by going elsewhere. These women are quite content with exactly the life they have chosen: staying married while not having sex.

As to you (for no good reason) bringing up the "rape" word: you have this totally backwards. A husband who pursues sex with his uninterested wife is acting rapey. A husband who finds an interested consenting non-wife partner is NOT being rapey.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics