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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many judgey posters. If my siblings choose to cheat, choose to divorce, it’s their right. It’s not my job to pass judgement. I know nothing of anyone’s marriage but my own. I’d be pretty livid if my family treated me with such disdain because of a choice I made. Thankfully my family is a blood comes first kind of family.

Op, you really have no idea why your brother has chosen to leave his wife. You really don’t.

Meeting the woman in his life currently won’t hurt you. As for his kids being hurt, your SIL response to her new reality dictates this.[/quote]

Dp  I couldn't disagree with you more.  Op is under no obligation to meet the other woman.  I think if he is divorced, fine but, why should op pretend everything is ok just because brother wants it to be?  I don't care why he divorced but, if he is still legally married to the first wife I wouldn't want to meet her.  Op could offer to meet her brother another time.  Who knows how long this woman will last?[/quote]

Perfectionism is toxic. Try letting go of some control and try to be empathetic.[/quote]

It sounds like the brother is trying to control everybody.

Date your girlfriend and stop pushing her on everyone.[/quote]

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