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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So your Ex [b]abused his position of power and slept with a subordinate[/b].  Your [b]lucky she didn’t sue him and get him fired[/b].  Then you’d have an unemployed Ex with less resources.  Since you are happier without Ex then I’d definitely take the high road.  In fact, consider thanking Suzy for taking Mike off your hands. [/quote]

This.  My ex cheated in a way that was a reflection of very abusive behavior.  I asked him to leave.  Although he didn't move in with anyone he was sleeping with (which would have been an extra level of pain for sure), I am so grateful that he finally got married to someone else.  It takes him off my hands, and I do not feel responsible for him in any way -- all that is now his wife's problem.

When he was single, I was still the one he would call in an emergency or float things by, and I felt obligated to respond because I didn't want my kids' dad to end up dead or homeless.  Now, I can have very minimal contact with him, and I know everything else falls to his wife.

Be happy.  Be uber polite, but draw and stick to firm boundaries.  Make it clear to people that you are divorced, but beyond that don't discuss.[/quote]

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