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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So letting kids draw their own conclusions about their father is abusive but telling them an abusive man ISNT abusive is healthy? Nah. [/quote] No, you don't characterize his behavior towards YOU. If he behaves badly to the kids, yes you have to step in to sort that out. But the fact that he was banging someone while you were married and that destroyed their family? Nope. Kids need to believe their dad loves them and they can't do that very well if they know their dad thought so little of them as to cheat and leave. We divorced moms need to help kids feel loved by their dads, not pile on with how horrible his rejection of us is. When the kid is an adult with a family of my own, trust me, he'll figure out that what dad did sucked royally. He'll also understand how difficult it is to be married and have kids, which helps explain dad's behavior. Not justify or excuse, but explain.[/quote]
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