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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Married man here and this thread is a hoot. I’ve had plenty of options to be unfaithful (successful businessman, a lot of travel, decent looking) but the option I have at home is still as good as I need. After 28 years she can still surprise me as she did a couple of weeks ago when she pulled out a set of handcuffs and said this might be fun. Like every other guy I fantasize about being with other women but I don’t need to be with another woman.[/quote]

Married business man here, same situation except my wife is very low drive, never initiates, often rejects, and wouldn't dream of suggesting something fun.  I haven't been so faithful but I can see being in your situation with a fun, sexually adventurous wife and looking at affairs as not worth the cost.

Point being, those who say cheating isn't about sex, you and I disprove the point.[/quote]

The only ones who ever say that cheating isn’t about sex ... are women. Men all seem to know that cheating IS about sex. I don’t cheat. But that’s because my wife and I have regular sex. If she was rejecting me, I would not even consider it “cheating” but just a normal way of dealing without sex at home.[/quote]
Man here, this is spot on.  Not proud of it but I had a couple of affairs at a point in my marriage where my wife shut down sexually. My APs were really wonderful women and they enjoyed the sex for sure but it wasn't about sex for them.  One was married to an introvert who totally ignored her, the other to a stay at home dad she didn't respect.  They are both divorced now.

For me it was almost exclusively about sex.  Now that I am older, my libido has calmed and my wife has some interest again, affairs aren't nearly as tempting[/quote]

Woman here ... I have to agree. My AP is totally in it for the sex. I'm in it for the connection. We are both using each other. I'll be hurt like hell when it ends.[/quote]

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