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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if I were you, I wouldn’t do anything until that counseling appointment. Telling the other spouse is like throwing gasoline on your existing dumpster fire. You may choose eventually to tell, but right now your world has been turned upside down and you are NOT thinking rationally. You’re just not. Give yourself time between now and your appointment to think on all of this. Don’t put any demands on yourself. Just take care of yourself and try to get through each day. Whether the affair is truly over or is continuing at some level, nothing major is going to change between today and your appointment so just try to breathe. You’re going to feel a lot different in a week and in a month and in a year. Your emotions will evolve. I truly recommend sitting on this decision for a week. See how you feel next week. [/quote]
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