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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you broke your vows once, why wouldn't you keep breaking them.  Depending on circumstances, I might not divorce you but the marriage would be over for good.  You could sleep with every woman you meet except me.  I don't like liars and cheats.  If you cared about your marriage, you would have worked on saving it instead of screwing around.[/quote]

I kind of hope your husband cheats a ton.[/quote]

Why? They have a valid point. If she has sex she'll never know if he's cheating, and passing along a serious STD. It's a big risk, not to mention it's already destroyed so much.[/quote]

+1 agreed. When people think about cheating, they only think about the relationship aspect. However, there are so many other issues at play. STDs, as PP mentioned, which can cause lifelong damage and harm the fetus of a pregnant woman, etc. Financial infidelity often occurs hand and hand and can destroy the innocent spouse's future. The list goes on and on and on.[/quote]

Our friend died of HPV throat cancer age 43. We still talk about him. He had a masters degree, but for some reason married the bartender that was very pretty BUT promiscuous. I had her number right away, but never thought about deadly STDs. I have zero doubt she gave it to him. Now she's dating and found a boyfriend.  It's something people won't talk about, nor will you see ads on TV etc. but it's out there.  My other friends son-in-law died the same way. His ex gave it to him.  I never knew anything about it until our friend died. [/quote]

You can’t say that his bartender wife gave him HPV. Do you know your friends whole sexual history? All it takes is one encounter. If he was dating a  bartender that must have been the crowd he ran with. This is a crazy post and not at all on topic. It’s mostly about your own prejudices, the fact that you seem to worship men and give them a pass and damn women as ‘STD ridden whores’  and not on whether someone cheated in a marriage. [/quote]

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