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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Are you a hoarder?   Or have not had the time to get rid of items so they go in a bin until you get around to it? [/b]

Hoarder - you need mental health support.  If it is that you have not clean-up and gotten rid of items - you need help (time and hands) to make this happen.
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Music teacher here. We get stuff in boxes and store instruments in boxes and containers. The part time teacher who is here once a week complained to other teachers that I was a hoarder because of the way the music closet looked. 
On the day she comes here to work, she has much more free time than I do. She has not once offered to help.
I come to work every other Sunday just to arrange the closet. [b]Within 3-4 days, it starts to look messy again.[/b]
I have tried to have the students help me -- in past years I have gotten lucky. This year, they just stack things on top of each other and put the instruments in random containers creating more work for me.

Having things in order and being neat  takes time and is a team effort. if I had the extra money I would have hired someone to do it.

I am not a hoarder.[/quote]

then you need to get rid of stuff
-Get rid of things you were thinking of using sometime in the future but have no definite plans for use or won't use for a few years
-Ask for some place for long term storage for boxes that will actually get used[/quote]

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