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Reply to "Supposed to leave for Europe on Sunday and I’m 5 weeks pregnant."
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[quote=Anonymous]I can't believe how hard people on this thread have been towards OP. I don't have kids and haven't been pregnant but have had friends and family that have struggled with nausea and fatigue during pregnancy so I've heard plenty about it. I can't imagine wanting to travel when you feel tired and nauseated the majority of the time plus there's having Crohn's on top of being pregnant-sounds like a rough combination of factors. OP's friends will be fine if they go own their own or if OP's husband joins them. The people that are saying that OP is being selfish are completely out of line. I think that it would actually be more selfish for OP to go and be sick and miserable when the others are trying to have fun. OP, take care of yourself and don't let what the unempathetic people on this site say influence you. This is travel for fun-not for work. There's no reason to go unless it's something you want to do. Your DH and friends will get over it. If I were a member of the couple going on the trip I would quite frankly rather you rested and stayed home. Your health and well being should be top priority right now. Not to be dramatic, but what if you reluctantly go and then have a miscarriage while your away? Miscarriages this early in a pregnancy aren't uncommon and dealing with that while on a trip would really suck. Take care of yourself OP! Don't go unless you want to. Man, this can be a tough site...not a lot of kindness or empathy here sometimes. [/quote]
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