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[quote=Anonymous][quote]...No, that is not the real issue. The real issue is that our culture has broadly accepted and normalized abuse from men. Marital rape wasn't prosecutable until 1973. Date rape is still largely unprosecutable and even when prosecuted is largely unpunished. The #metoo movement demonstrates the extent to which sexual assault and harrassment is embedded in our culture and relationships. And our economic disempowerment (lower wages, less career mobility, no maternity leave, no widely available reasonable childcare, poor levels of child support post-divorce, and unequal parental burden-sharing) makes it very hard to leave an abusive relationship, especially before the hitting starts. But sure, blame male abuse on dumb women with low self-esteem. +1 Women are socialized from very early to take it all upon themselves. We're in charge of keeping men happy. We're socialized to ignore our own good. [/quote] You do realize a notable number of men are also victims of domestic violence, don't you? And, it's not just men in homosexual relationships. https://ncadv.org/statistics[/quote]
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