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[quote=Anonymous][quote]It's pretty clear very few abused or not understand the "signs" of abuse but like to think they can't become a victim because they "know better" or would leave the second he says "wow your brother is an invinsiderate dolt".

Here we go with the excuses again. Yes, if someone abuses you once and then twice and then a third time and you DO NOT LEAVE then you are part of your own problem.

I understand that your righteousness comes from a place of ignorance the exact type that may get you in trouble in the future. I am not here to convince you of the science. It is there for you to read, reasearch, and understand or you can just walk through life believing "you know better". I suspect I'm not the 1st tel you that your hardheaded and self righteous attitude is getting i the way for you to learn. It's blocking you from learning and understanding. Good luck with that.[/quote]

DP.  I have no idea what 'science' you're talking about.  There is a lot of science out there documenting the warning signs of an abusive relationship.  Yet, it is astounding how many people to choose to ignore those signs and/or make excuses for the behavior.  It's a pattern that happens over and over and it escalates.  I recognize that it is difficult to accept that a relationship isn't working out but it is a choice to stay after abusive/controlling/demeaning/disrespectful behavior is demonstrated. [/quote]

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